Tressy wrote:Dying to know how you got on???
Hi Tressy
I'm so sorry I never got back to you. I felt so down after having it done I'm only just coming around really if that makes sense.
I had the system done and it really didn't suit me, I looked awful, it just looked like a wig

I was so, so upset as until I'd gone for it doing I hadn't really realised just how bad my hair had gotten either, so I felt that there was no solution and got so upset and depressed. I tried to bear in mind you told me it took some getting used to and not have it taken straight out, but still ended up going back 2 days later for it removing. I felt even the staff knew it looked awful.
To be fair, they told me there was so much they were able to do to make it look better, but the top part (you know the main bit) had been cut for the fringe so without more expense that couldn't be rectified. They also said it would settle down after a few days and after washing but I was so, so upset I just wanted it off. What made it worse was I had a day off work for it removing, so if I'd have had it all redone after having a sick day then gone into work the day after with the new hair everyone would have known why I'd been off etc etc.
The look wasn't natural on me at all, but I was also surprised that you could see the mesh and the connections just by lifting a bit of the hair at the front. I felt I'd have been scared stiff of anyone ever touching it, or being out in the wind and it blowing back. Is this a problem you have Tressy?? There was so much hair I even struggled to get to my face to wash it, and it was too heavy to tie up, it was a nightmare even though I only had it 2 days. I stayed in bed the whole 2 days.
I'm really not sure what I'm going to do, I'm very upset by it all and have since been to the doctors who have referred me to a Dermatologist. The doctor confirmed its not alopecia and think it is stress related as I have had a lot of stress over the last 2 years. The problem is though that I can't see me becoming any less stressed cos I stress more than ever now about my hair, I never stop thinking about it. My appointment at the Dermatologist is this week so I am going to see what they say.
Do you mind me asking Tressy how old you are? And what colour hair you went for?? I feel at a complete loss.
Thank you x