Firstly, I can reassure you that it WON'T damage your hair. I've had mine in for such a long time that if it caused damage then it would really be obvious by now. If you have fine hair at your parting, then extensions wouldn't work for you - you'd be so self conscious about visibility. I once had individual extensions and spent the whole time trying to cover them. I simply didn't have the volume of hair to hide them and sounds like you might be the same.
As far as feeling the mesh goes ... if I stroke my hair or even run my fingers through it, I don't feel the mesh. The hair is sewn onto the mesh and Dawn uses plenty so there isn't really much mesh to feel. If you were to point your fingers down into the hair and have a good poke about then, yes, you would feel something. Its very easy to just pass that off as extensions should anyone really want to know! It just doesn't occur to anyone that you're wearing anything as sophisticated as a whole system as the majority of people don't even know it exists! Everyone has heard of extensions though.
I do have a fringe. The system is sewn on at the natural hairline on my forehead so I couldn't wear my fringe brushed back smooth and secured as it you would see 'something' there. I do sometimes push my fringe back, secure it with an alice band and kind of push the alice band forward so my hair isn't totally flat and then, for me, that disguises it.
As far as pony tails etc go, I wear mine up as I still have plenty of hair from my neck upwards so I can cover it. The sides can be brushed back - its all about positioning and placing the hair.
I guess you have to decide if you're ok as you are or you want to take this step. Its expensive if you're not sure. I just knew I was thoroughly sick of my problems and had tried everything else! Like I said before, I wouldn't be without it now.
Thing is, its never gonna be as good as a full head of natural, healthy hair cos that comes for free! However, my hair is now better and more low maintenance than the hair of friends who I envied before and I love that!
When are you going to Hair Transform?

